Classy vs Cheeky: What Style of Hen Party Suits Your Bride Best?
- Fit Butler
- Sep 10
- 2 min read
Series: The Ultimate Girls’ Night Guide by Fit Butlers
Every bride is different – and that means no two hen parties should ever be the same.
Whether you’re planning a champagne-soaked spa weekend in Bath or a cocktail-fuelled night out in Bristol, the big question is:Are we going classy or cheeky? And more importantly – what would the bride actually enjoy?
At Fit Butlers, we’ve helped create hundreds of hen dos across the South West, and we’ve seen it all. Here’s how to figure out which party style fits your bride – and how to build the perfect hen party in Bristol and Bath either way.
✨ The Classy Hen Party
Think prosecco picnics, spa robes, and stylish photo ops.
Great for brides who are:
A little shy or low-key
All about aesthetics and elegant vibes
Into wellness, wine tasting, or afternoon tea
Not big fans of being the centre of attention
Top Classy Hen Do Ideas:
Spa day at the Thermae Bath Spa
Wine and cheese tasting at a vineyard or boutique bar
Brunch with bubbles (and maybe a butler to serve?)
Private naked life drawing class – cheeky but artistic
Garden party or countryside cottage weekend
Locations that suit:
Bath is the ultimate classy hen destination. Gorgeous architecture, relaxed atmosphere, and loads of luxe Airbnb options.
Or go for a scenic retreat just outside Bristol for the best of both worlds.
🍑 The Cheeky Hen Party
Think games, shots, laughs, and just the right amount of naughtiness.
Great for brides who are:
Up for a laugh
The life of the party
Always quoting Love Island or dancing on tables
Looking for a night to remember (or forget…)
Top Cheeky Hen Do Ideas:
A butler in the buff to serve drinks and lead party games
Saucy strippergram surprise
Drinking games and karaoke in your Airbnb
A themed dress-up night – think 90s, drag, or full-on sparkle
Clubbing or bar-hopping in Bristol
Locations that suit:
Bristol brings energy, music, and loads of nightlife options.
Book a central apartment, add a topless butler, and let the chaos begin.
💡 Can You Do Both?
Yes! In fact, the best hen parties often start classy and end cheeky.Here’s a sample Classy to Cheeky weekend:
Friday: Arrive in Bath, relax with wine & a chill dinner
Saturday AM: Spa and brunch
Saturday PM: Butler in the buff, party games, cheeky surprises
Saturday night: Head to Bristol for cocktails and dancingSunday: Hangover brunch, photos, and goodbyes
You get the elegance and the entertainment – and your bride gets a weekend she’ll actually love.
🥂 Let Fit Butlers Handle the Entertainment
No matter your vibe, we’ve got the fun part covered.Whether it’s a toned-down butler hosting fizz and canapés, or a full-blown cheeky night with games and giggles – we’ll match the energy of your group and bring the charm.
💌 Need help planning your hen party in Bristol and Bath?🎨 Want to book life drawing, a butler, or a surprise strip show?
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